NEVER GIVE UP
 
Perseverance is a skill that can be taught:
As adults, we learn through trial and error and we learn to cope and understand the importance of perseverance no matter how difficult a task may become or seem. Through perseverance we continue trying the task even though it seems difficult.
In my opinion and in the opinion of my character Do’er Duck, the ability to persevere is necessary to develop a mind set for success. Think about it, no one person can achieve accomplishments every time. With perseverance you discover new ideas, through setbacks and experiences and these will help you move forward in developing perseverance. When a setback occurs, and they do, we need to embrace this and to learn from the experience and discover new ways to move forward. This takes practice, too. We aren’t born with the yearning to just persevere when things get tough. Our first instinct is to quit.  However, instead of walking away and persevering at the task at hand, we learn, we grow from the experience, and we can help others through similar difficulties knowing what worked or didn’t’ work in your own experience.
.As a parent or an educator, teaching a child new language is important, having discussions on what it means to persevere is significant. Share stories of your own and use these as examples how at one time you didn’t think you would be able to accomplish your goal without persevering through it.
First, be patient with them. At first try when attempting this new task your child may become frustrated with themselves, keep encouraging them to try again, and again, and again if need be. Maybe not all at once, take a break, tomorrow is another day. But, do get back on the horse!
Here are some thoughts to help teach a child perseverance though Do’er Duck who teaches our children to ‘NEVER GIVE UP”
.1. Be patient
2. Be an encouragement
3. Introduce small challenges to that they, extending their comfort zone
4 .Share a story of yourself during a time that you persevered
5. Take a break if you must, but, do not quit
There is such a feeling of accomplishment when you persevere through a situation or a task. Teaching your child and introducing them to obstacles will help them to put this skill into practice and to become better prepared to overcome the obstacles that present themselves. Through perseverance a child will internalize the feeling of accomplishment and perhaps look forward to the next challenge in life knowing that they will give it a try.
Teaching our children these vital core values shapes them into their own character and helps them to gain a deeper awareness to develop these positive character traits.  For more information, visit www.charactersofcharacter.org
 
 

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All through our life, if we are lucky enough, we'll have a good friend. In our childhood it was usually the neighborhood kids which we played with all day and all night. When we would walk to school and talk and then walk home for lunch and talk some more and then walk home from school and continue our talk. In the evening we would gather in the front yards to play games like Kick the Can, or Ding Dong Ditch, or catch lightning bugs. All such good memories with childhood friends.

Then, we go to middle school or Jr. High School. Some of us are lucky enough to keep our neighborhood friends and continue our growing up with them through school years. Those are good friends. I still stay in touch with a few of mine from our old neighborhood and it's just wonderful to catch up on the good ol' days.

Next, we may go off to college where we continue to make friends. Get married, stay in touch and then make more new friends, couple friends to do things with. Go to dinner, concerts, play games or just get together to talk about life. Different chapters of life usually has different friendships.

How are you teaching your children about being a friend in these changing times we live in? A few changes come to my mind, one of which is today children go to Day Care and Pre School where they begin making friends at an earlier age. Or, they have "Play Dates" which is much different than when I was a little girl. We actually would just walk over to our neighborhood friends house to come out and play, there wasn't all this technology like today, we loved getting outdoors to play. There was usually a group of us all the time at somebody's home. 

Still, some things do remain the same. For instance, friends still talk together. Friends still walk together. And, friends still get together to catch up on life. Here are a few additional ways to help teach children what friends can do together and that a good friend is like a hidden treasure, take good care of them!
1. Friends can go to the park together
2. Friends can paint together.
3. Friends can cook together.
4. Friends can sing together.
5. Friends can help out in their community.
6. Friends are honest with one another.
7. Friends are good listeners to one another.
8. Friends can share secrets together.
9. Friends can learn new activities together, like swimming or a sport.
10. Friends can read together and tell stories together.
11. Friends can help other friends.

Friends can do most anything together when they trust in each other, when they respect each other and when they enjoy one another. Tell Friendship Frog what you and your friends like to do together!

Write a letter to Friendship Frog and tell this character about you and your friend. Mail to:
Characters of Character (or your favorite character)
P.O. Box 391
McHenry, Illinois 60050
Please be sure to include a self addressed envelope for a reply. Let's be Pen Pals. This activity helps your child to think about what they do that is kind, or who they know that is kind and how they can be kind. Plus, it helps build literacy and communication skills!


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Times have changed, but having healthy habits should remain the same, it’s just heightened for now. Research has found that a healthy habit is formed when you do something for at least 21 days. As adults, we teach our children to wash their hands often, after they go to the washroom, after they play outdoors, when they sneeze, make a mess and before meals and snacks. Today, we just need to remind them more often, hopefully it’s already a habit.
Healthy Hippo is sharing coloring pages for families to do with their children (scroll down to download). Positive reinforcement is always welcomed in any situation; use these as coloring pages for your children to write and draw in. Ask them first, “What are healthy habits?” to open the line of communications with them. Ask them, “Who do you know that has healthy habits,” to let them think about things. Allow them to write in their journal and draw pictures to communicate their thoughts and feelings. Ask them, “What is your favorite food?” Is it a healthy choice? If not, discuss healthier choices that they can be making.
Below are some simple ideas to help teach healthy habits:
1. Be a role model
2. Wash your hands often
3. Choose nutritional foods
4. Choose healthy snacks
5. Brush your teeth
6. Exercise
7. Keep your mind healthy, read
8. Do puzzles
9. Have conversations, communicate, keep your mind active
10. A healthy body is as important as a healthy mind
Teaching our children these vital core values shapes them into their own character and helps them to gain a deeper awareness to develop these positive character traits. I’m a visual learner and guess many of you are as well. Use old magazines to cut pictures out and let your kids glue them onto another piece of paper, then use as a poster and visual reminder! Here are some ideas on what to look for in the magazine:
– Find healthy foods
– Find hygiene products
– Find people exercising
– Find items for building a healthy body
– Find items for building a healthy mind
Discuss with your family and let them know what you expect from them in order to form healthy habits. It’s not an easy task to always eat healthily, and I find myself struggling at times with this. What I’ve done for myself is to limit the cravings. When I really want a piece of chocolate cake, I eat just a few bites rather than an entire piece. It’s the little things that will make a difference and become healthier habits in your life.
Here are a few links to watch Healthy Hippo teach healthy habits for your family:
Characters of Character
Healthy Hippo On Hand Washing
Healthy Hippo Discussion and Coloring Pages
Learn more online at https://www.charactersofcharacter.org/
Coloring pages:
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